What is Domestic Violence?

Domestic violence is a learned pattern of behaviors used by one person in a relationship to control the other person. It takes many forms and can happen all the time or once in a while. Anyone can be a victim of domestic violence...young, old, rich, poor, black, white, professional, unemployed, married or not married, gay or lesbian, living together, separated or dating. There is no typical profile of domestic violence victims except that they are usually female. Children living in homes where a mother is abused are more likely to be abused themselves. Even if they are not, children who witness abuse are victims. An important step to help yourself or someone you know in preventing or stopping violence is recognizing the warning signs.

If you are in an abusive situation, ALWAYS REMEMBER:

• You are not alone.

• You are not to blame.

• And, you can get help.

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